Marriage of insecurities and entitlements

Marriage of insecurities and entitlements
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In a world where insecurities breed, Women are shaped by doubts, a delicate seed. Marriage, a union where uncertainties loom, Men, burdened with entitlements, fill the room.

Each step they take is weighed by fears, Whispered doubts, and shedding silent tears. Women are molded by societal decree, Questioning themselves, and what they should be.

Men are taught to expect, demand, and own, In marriages forged, seeds of entitlement are sown. A delicate dance in a fragile embrace, Held back by insecurities, leaving little space.

But amidst this tangled web of doubt, Love's gentle whisper broke out. For in the heart's quiet, truth does reside, Beyond the masks, where love can't hide.

Sengas talk to their girls, voices low, Assuring them, it's fine to let love flow. "If a man strays, with another he roams, Find peace within, let not your heart groan."

Kojjas and society, in murmurs decree, The boy child's entitlement, a guarantee. "As long as he provides, all is well, In his castle, let him dwell."

Yet, within this exchange of heart and gold, Lies a tale of stories seldom told. The toll on mental health, silently paid, In the shadows where dreams fade.

Girls, among their peers, misled advice hears, Pressure mounts, clouding their fears. Comparisons drawn, to other men's gains, "If he fails, seek elsewhere for gains."

But in this dance of societal norms, The price of such advice slowly forms. For within hearts, love struggles to thrive, As illusions of entitlement and doubt strive.

Let's break these chains, rewrite the tale, Where empathy and understanding prevail. In the garden of love, let blossoms bloom, Where compassion replaces assumptions' gloom.